General Knowledge and Geography

I watch Eat Bulaga in the past because of their Bulagaan (University) portion where their hosts get to sing answers to general knowledge questions. Today, I watch the show because of the Pinoy Henyo game. I find it funny and interesting when game contestants shout out ‘Oo, hind, puede’ to questions that would lead the guesser to the right answer.

A few weeks ago, the contestants were varsity players from different universities in Manila. I find it disturbing that a number of the contestants do not know where certain places are. Argentina was thought to be in Europe. Alaska was also in Europe and France was in North America. While many of the players accurately guessed the answer and gave the correct prompts, it is dismal that there were University student contestants who do not know where Argentina, France and Alaska are located! Where were these students when geography was taught? I know, they might have been practicing their game but a revisit to the level of knowledge university students should be done. I am also aware that I could not generalize the three players to the whole population of college students but I think it’s time that we should extend the number of years a Filipino student should enroll in primary and secondary education before he or she enters college.

I have been teaching for many years in the tertiary level and yes, I had brilliant as well as poor students. However, I am quite sure that they could have accurately guessed where France, Argentina and Alaska are found. But it is also my observation that there are students who are ill equipped to enter college. I believe one’s high school education plays an important role in the preparedness of students to enroll in tertiary education. The longer you prepare students, the better they will fare in college. This would entail more classrooms, more books and hiring of more teachers which will all equate to more budget for the public sector. I don’t believe that our government don’t have enough money to spare for education. It should be the first in the list for budget allocation and not the other way around. If it means scrimping on other government expenditures, then it should be done. I am a supporter of the belief that education is a proven tool for social mobilization.

When all is said and done, I hope that in the future- we don’t come across college students who think Alaska is in Europe.

Twenty Five Years Later….

At three months

I’m kidding. It should read 35 years later….

It’s not bad after all to be called Manang or Ate. And here are 10 things I’ve learned on turning 35:

1. Your motto becomes “age is a state of the mind…”
2. You don’t have to be a genius to make a difference in the world- especially in the lives of your children…
3. A simple sorry is all it takes.
4. A kiss can instantly wipe the pain of a child who just fell down.
5. Unconditional love can be found within the walls of your home.
6. An A is an A and a B is a B. Don’t think too much because learning takes place in simple things.
7. Less is more.
8. Children are God’s greatest gifts.
9. Gifts are expensive (refer to number 8).
10. Moisturize. Moisturize. Moisturize.

The Ruins… Philippines Own Taj Mahal

Recognized as one of the heritage sites in the Philippines, the Ruins was once a magnificent mansion of Don Mariano Ledesma Lacson. Built early in the 20th century, it stood as a testament of his love to his first wife, Maria Braga, who died of an accident together with their last unborn child. This tragic event moved the sugar baron to erect a mansion in memory of his wife. The mansion was surrounded by his more than 440 hectares of sugar plantation and mostly built with the finest material imported from other countries.

It became the home of his children until each got married and had to move out of the house to observe the tradition that anyone who gets married would have to leave the mansion. This tradition was also observed by Don Mariano when he married his second wife many years later. However, the magnificence and beauty of the mansion became a memory when world war II came. All structures that have the potential to be used as a Japanese foothold during the war were burned down through the command of the United States Armed Forces in the Far East (USAFE). The mansion was not spared. Stories were told of how the mansion burned for 3 days before the last ember died.

Today, only the solid structure of the 903 sq. meter mansion remained. In 2008, the structure was opened to the public and once again, the love story of Don Mariano and Maria Braga is retold.

During new year’s eve, we took our mama and papa to the site and truly it was ‘a sight to behold!’ Carved on the walls of the structure were the letters M which faced each other. This was done to immortalize the love of Don Mariano and his first wife Maria Braga:

Letters M facing each other on one of the walls of the mansion

The ruins of the mansion:

A view of the four-tier fountain from the first floor of the ruins (and Josh and Danielle)

A closer view of the almost 100 year old water fountain:

Today, the ruins is not only a tourist attraction and heritage site but you can reserve it for your own wedding and other special events and the catch- it’s only a 30 minutes drive from Bacolod City!

xīn nián kuài lè (Happy Chinese New Year!)

Early on, J and I decided that we will send our children to a Chinese school. Personally, I am impressed by how simple most Chinese children are despite their wealth. Most students coming from Chinese schools seem to be good in math (from my observation in teaching college students who came from Chinese schools). But most importantly, I want my children to learn a second language. Chinese seems to be a natural choice because of the intimate relationship between Filipino and Chinese culture and the influence of the latter in many aspects of ordinary Filipino life.

Yesterday, Danielle had her first Chinese New Year celebration. I was pleasantly surprised that her Chinese teacher gave her a red envelope (hóng bāo) with money in it and a personalised greeting card with a picture of her and danielle. I made a quick search and found out that red is a lucky color in Chinese culture. It has become a tradition to give red envelopes containing new crisp bill(s) to children and Chinese new year signals a fresh start. Here are the contents of Danielle’s red envelope:

The value of the money should not be 4, 40, 400 or anything with 4 in its value. Even numbers are favored over odd numbers. However, an odd number is welcome. In Danielle’s case, she and her classmates received 1 yuan each.

So to everyone, xīn nián kuài lè (Happy New Year!)

Danielle with her English Teacher

Danielle with her classmates (L-R: Page, Dhara, Skylar)

My favorite poem for Children

The first time I read the poem attributed to Dorothy Nolte, I made a resolution that when I have children, I’ll practise what it teaches. I hope I won’t fail my children… Here’s the poem (I know most of you have even memorised it, but it’s good to be reminded once in a while)

If A Child Lives With. . .
by Dorothy Law Nolte

If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight.
If a child lives with fear, he learns to be apprehensive.
If a child lives with jealousy, he learns to feel guilt.
If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient.
If a child lives with encouragement, he learns to be confident.
If a child lives with praise, he learns to be appreciative.
If a child lives with acceptance, he learns to love.
If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself.
If a child lives with recognition, he learns that it is good to have a goal.
If a child lives with honesty, he learns what truth is.
If a child lives with fairness, he learns justice.
If a child lives with security, he learns to trust in himself and others .
If a child lives with friendliness, he learns the world is a nice place in which to live.
 

Jojo

Josh and Danielle

All Little Girls are Princesses

Just yesterday afternoon, I overheard my daughter telling her nanny that she is a princess. Every time she has a chance to announce it, she would tell me and her Daddy that she is a princess. In fact, she adores princess dolls (Sleeping Beauty is her favorite), Disney princesses, princess games and all things princess.

I am reminded of the beautiful movie released in 1995- A little Princess. The conversation below would always remain in memory:

Miss Minchin: Don’t tell me you still fancy yourself a princess? Child, look around you! Or better yet, look in the mirror.
Sara Crewe: I am a princess. All girls are. Even if they live in tiny old attics. Even if they dress in rags, even if they aren’t pretty, or smart, or young. They’re still princesses. All of us. Didn’t your father ever tell you that? Didn’t he?
******

Don’t you believe that it too?

Finally– a movie!

I finally got to watch a movie with Josh and the hubby yesterday! The last time we watched a movie was several months ago- Toy Story 3 with Danielle and Josh.

It’s so refreshing to just sit and relax and let the big screen do the entertaining. The movie is fun, not serious and does not require your cortex to do a lot of connections to decipher each plot and how they relate to real life. It was simply splendid. We had a good laugh throughout the more than one hour movie… While I like movies that require you to think and be philosophical (at least for a moment), I want to leave that experience to books. Now, I simply want to see movies to be simply entertained.

I won’t discuss the plot of Gulliver’s Travels- and be a spoiler but you have my word that it’s fun for a family entertainment! Go- watch it!

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Sleeping Habits

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Define Happiness in One Word II

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